That you seek your happiness not so much as the finish line than in the running. That you have the strength not to lift tremendous weight, than a fallen friend. That you have learnt to fight your own battles with a never ending streak of ceasefires. Not that the occassion makes you smile, but that your smile makes the occassion. That your bridges be built not over rivers, but misunderstandings. That your wealth be not in your bank, but in your heart. That you gain power not over others, but over yourself. That you never fail to leave the stage until your applause is done. That you don't bow to little people with big titles but to big people with little titles. Not that you never know grief, but that you not know joy too soon after. That your names be household names not throughout the lands, but in your own households. And that your monument be found not in public parks, but in the lives of those you have touched.